Report by Apeke Rosemary-14/04/2024
In a candid interview on the Lime and Chocolate show aired on AIT TV, relationship expert Mr Benjamin Amartey Tagoe delved into the intricate dynamics of fostering healthy communication within marriages.
When questioned about the prevalent lack of communication in marital affairs, Tagoe emphasized the importance of not just communication, but “healthy communication.”He highlighted how inadequate communication can lead to misunderstandings and ultimately, relationship discord.
Tagoe pinpointed several factors that impede healthy relationships, including finances, attitude, character, and the detrimental impact of assumptions. “Once you cut off a healthy relationship, the relationship will be destroyed,”he cautioned, stressing the need to address assumptions promptly through effective communication.
The seasoned relationship counselor underscored the significance of trust, asserting that broken trust can shatter even the most robust relationships. Moreover, Tagoe emphasized that communication skills are not innate but acquired, influenced by upbringing and personal learning experiences.
In a surprising twist, Tagoe touched on the role of intimacy in nurturing strong bonds. He delineated between the “Art of sex” and the “Act of sex,” urging couples to prioritize emotional connection and foreplay over mere physical performance. He advocated for men to prioritize their partner’s pleasure, suggesting that ensuring multiple orgasms before penetration can enhance intimacy and strengthen the marital bond.
Tagoe’s insights on communication and intimacy resonated with viewers, sparking discussions on social media platforms. His pragmatic approach to relationship issues offered a refreshing perspective, prompting viewers to reconsider their own communication habits and approach to intimacy.
As the interview concluded, viewers were left with actionable advice on fostering healthy relationships, with many eagerly awaiting Tagoe’s future appearances on the Lime and Chocolate show for more wisdom on matters of the heart.
